There are many psychological signs you can look for, and many technological apps that you can use to detect your partner’s online activities. Infidelity, even when sex is not involved, is really painful and it’s better all doubts be cleared than keep lingering around in the air.

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Psychological Signs you can look for:

1. He is not friends with you on Facebook

In this technological and social-media oriented age, it’s quite fishy if you are dating someone and are not friends with him/her on Facebook. If he has not added you despite your sending him a friend request or even if he himself has never come up with the idea of adding each other on Facebook, you really need to check out on your relationship.

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PS: It’s okay if he has a Facebook account just for the sake of it and he’s not active there.

2. You are friends on Facebook, but still, you are unable to see his posts and online activities.

It’s really a very strong sign and should be noted. You should be sure of what your partner’s online activities are and if there are some activities happening behind your back even if it requires you becoming the Sherlock Holmes of the cyber world. You can get in touch with his friends and subtly figure out if he’s changed his privacy settings to hide stuff from you.

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3. He has a Facebook crush.

We are, very rapidly becoming the part of a virtual world and anything is possible here. If you are noticing that your partner is liking or commenting on the posts and pictures of a particular non-celebrity person, then you might as well need to be on alert, as to who that person is to your partner.

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It’s okay if they are someone of whom your partner speaks to you quite openly and nonchalantly. But if he’s constantly hiding things about them from you, it’s the sign you are looking for.

4. He suddenly keeps his phone aside whenever you go near him or enter the room.

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I think I don’t need to explain this point, as you yourself might have found this gesture strange.

5. He spends time on Facebook a lot, but not for his work or something he discusses with you.

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It’s okay if he’s constantly online because of work, or for some reason that he can easily explain to you. Otherwise, it’s as strange as anything because reports tell that people nowadays don’t spend much time on Facebook. For enjoying the perks of social media there are better alternatives like Instagram and Snapchat, and there are not many reasons left these days for staying on Facebook now.

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If you are feeling the presence of such signs very strongly, you can talk to your partner face to face and solve the matter. This, however, can lead to fights, or even break up. The other way to transform your intuition into belief, you can use tracking apps which are available in the market and allow you to monitor your partner’s online activities. Nothing can work better than this as a 21st-century solution.

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Ikey monitor spyware program control app is an effective tool to track what you want to. You can even restrict the screentime and disconnect wifi from your partner’s phone at your will if you feel like doing so. You can even block certain apps on their phone. Kidguard is another app for the purpose.