As an Indian vegetarian married to a Caucasian meat-eater in the US (or as Indians might say- ‘non-vegetarian’), with one child who is being raised as a meat-eater and another who is being raised a vegetarian (oh yes, our family is our happy social experiment), here is how I get around to not cooking most days:
Hash browns are a great substitute for ‘aloo tikki’ (Indian potato pancakes with spices)
Sriracha. Great way to spice up your grits, your sandwich, your pasta, your rice, your dal without upsetting the rest of the family’s meal and getting those picky eaters to turn up their noses. I think when the makers of Sriracha put the tag line ‘I put Sriracha on my Sriracha’ they were thinking of people like me.
McDonalds standard order: The breakfast Egg McMuffin meal, Canadian Bacon on the side please. Yes on the Hashbrown, switch the coffee for Chocolate shake (I need the calories!). The Canadian bacon lands up in my 5-year old’s tummy, the hash brown is generally split three ways between me, the 5-year old and the 1-year old.
Barbecue restaurants- Once in a while my husband will crave barbecue (understandable) although he avoids it when its a family dinner night. While the husband and the five-year old gnaw on baby back ribs, me and the 1-year old create makeshift sandwiches from hamburger buns with coleslaw, tomatoes, french fries, pickle and then I slather my side with whatever is the hottest sauce in the restaurant. My husband starts his eye roll the minute he sees the waiter/ess approaching our table as a means of heads-up to her. Sometimes he follows this up with a “yes can you believe you got two vegetarians to come to this restaurant. You guys must be good!”
Successful cuisines for our family: Mexican, thai, italian (pizza/pasta). Believe it or not, Indian cuisine when eating out is not that successful. I have noticed that my kids don’t like even mildly spiced dishes at Indian restaurants and mostly land up eating naan (bread). So we avoid it. Chipotle is a 50% success. Unfortunately my husband doesn’t care for it much. Thankfully, home-cooked Indian food is a different story. Dal (various kinds of Indian lentils) is the most popular and a staple in our house. As are paranthas (Indian flat bread made from scratch on a flat pan, sometimes stuffed with potatoes, peas, leftover dal, cheese… you name it).
Eggs are a life saver. Thank god I’m not a vegan. We raise our own chickens and so I enjoy my eggs guilt-free. I do take dairy and intend to quit it one day, but that’s fodder for another post.