Why is it so hard to take a stand against parents?

See, situations like these where we have to stand against our parents and make a decision, is a tough call. From the beginning, the time when we walk with the help of our parents we are told always listen to them. From very tender age we are filled with rules like, parents are always right and we should not question their decisions. Cause they are for our own good and best fortune.

We listen to our elders because they are older than us; hence have experience of lot more than us. They have been in the same place or situations. So they don’t want us to repeat their mistake or fail where they failed. Often it’s very hard to go against our parents and even when we do something like that, we always have a guilt and submission of our fault. It can be due to emotional or psychological barrier of why we cannot go against our parents will. Or maybe it is seen as a disgraceful and disrespectful moment even if you feel that you our right. But due to domestic anxiety that the aftermath of disapproval might be unpleasant, this leads to some hard decisions in the life of teenager.

Parents or any elder are the people with experience. They have more experience than their kids. Thus many kids believe that arguing with their parents is cool which apparently is the worst thing anyone could do. Taking a stand for yourself is not a bad thing but the way your present your side of the story is what shows that are you talking relevant thing or not. The way to look at a scenario is what tells us about our thinking and theirs too.

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